Joe Manganiello claims his ex-wife Sofía Vergara refused to hug him — and even mocked his puppy — while he battled a mysterious autoimmune condition he describes as near-fatal, according to excerpts from his new memoir “Bloodlines” obtained by PEOPLE.

Manganiello writes that their marriage had “become devoid of any emotionality whatsoever” during the health crisis. The memoir also covers the undiagnosed illness that he says nearly killed him.

The former couple separated in 2023 and finalized their divorce in 2024, ending one of Hollywood’s most-watched marriages.

Representatives for Vergara did not immediately respond to the claims carried in the excerpts.